Someone “acted” against you. Let it go. To forgive, you do not have to tell anyone anything. You just need to let it “go”. “Forgive them for they do not know what they do." - Jesus
Emotion: Betrayal, Rejection, Guilt, Regrets & Self-Forgiveness
Fix: Does God have a problem with you? Does God have a problem with them? Only the “All-Knowing” can judge. Was it according to God’s plan? Did God know since the beginning of time it was going to occur?
Sample Cases: Betrayal can occur in any relationship including “significant other,” family members, friends or coworkers. Someone “trespassed against you.” This includes any incident that may be considered “wrongful,” including crimes and abuses against you. Self-forgiveness usually involves regrets and may also include the life lesson of Divine Guidance.
Lesson: “All the problems are the same problem with the same solution and that is the feeling that you are separate from God.” - A Course In Miracles
Emotions: Abandonment, Anxiety, Worry, Panic, Grieving
Fix: “Special Place Meditation.” Is there a time and place in this life that you felt connected to God (ex. in nature or a sacred place)? If so, in meditation - or in your mind - you go to that place and feel the connection.
Sample Cases: Relationship issues involving divorce and separation, especially where the person makes the other person a “God” (source of Love, security etc.). The person needs to consider building their relationship with God / Source. Any situation tied to the emotion of “fear” is the life lesson of Separation. Injury from a fall is the not knowing that God was with you when you fell. When a doctor tells you that you have three months to live, that is Separation (you made the doctor a “God”)
Unfortunately, and I see this a lot, a benefit of dis-ease is to get another person’s attention so they change. You have a choice. Right now, you’re at a point where if you get them to change or you can accept them, or you totally avoid them, (either you move or they move), then there is no reason, no benefit for the disease. Because, if somebody moves into your home or somebody moves out, and you are not at peace, (whatever the story is), your body says, or unconsciously says, “This is a benefit. This disease has a benefit.”
For wellness you must take the benefit away immediately. Again, you don’t tell anybody. You don’t look it up on the Internet. This isn’t what it’s about. You need to change your view of the situation so you are at peace at all cost. There is nothing more important. It doesn’t matter if you offend someone or if it costs money. It is a cheap investment compared to what you’re going to pay physically and financially by not addressing it immediately and allowing it to manifest into an issue. Pay now or pay more later.
I do have patients that have family members or extended family members move into their house. I even had a master teacher, who was thinking of allowing a family member to move in. In that case I said “Don’t allow it, do not allow it at any cost.” Reach into your pocket and rent them an apartment somewhere else. Do whatever it takes, but you need to obtain peace.